Letting Go
Letting Go….I have been writing this post in my mind for weeks; composing it, changing it, deleting it, scorning it, celebrating it... much like the event it describes. This post is the acknowledgment of a big life change; and much like the event in real life, change often comes with a mixed bag of emotions.
We spent Mother’s Day and yesterday helping Megan move several hours away where she will be continuing her education. She is living with best girlfriend, Rachel, and hubby, Michael. Meg has transferred her job at the bank to a new location and will be venturing out to start a new life.
I guess no matter how old your children get, the process of “letting go” can be a challenge. The dichotomy of the situation is that from their birth we nurture, train, protect and invest in our kids with the full knowledge that we are working ourselves out of a job. We are preparing them to launch out on their own and carry forth as 
productive members of society. So, although the day of launching should be one to be celebrated, there is always an element to it that makes me feel like I want to go hide somewhere to lick my wounds. Serious business… this process of riding the roller coaster we call “life”. I suppose this means that hubby and I are now officially “empty-nesters”. Aren’t we supposed to be buying an RV or something right about now?
SO…. To Megan…
Congratulations on a successful move! Our prayers continue to lift you up; that you would grow in Christ and draw near to Him, that every day you would gain a deeper understanding of His Love and Faithfulness, and that you would hold fast to the foundation that has been laid. We love you and are praying for guidance, safety and success in each area of your life. Praying for the Success that comes from growing in wisdom and in Christ’s love…after that, everything else will fall in to place. We love you, our “Muffy in The Middle”.
The family cat is not so sure she appreciates being displaced from "her closet"
Best Wishes Meg...We Love You!!
Labels:
Family-Marriage-Parenting
7 comments:
Best wishes to your daughter Megan in her move. I'm sure it is a hard time for both of you.
Cute photos. Thanks for sharing them.
I love the photos. Your daughter is beautiful.
Best wishes to your daughter on her move and continuing her education. I am sure it is emotional for all.
Blessings,
Trella
Sweet, heartfelt post. We have many times in our lives with mixed emotions. Your daughter is a beautiful young lady and I'm sure the values and faith you have not only taught her, but demonstrated to her will hold her firm in their grip.
(hug)
Susan
Congratulations on a job well done! She looks ready to take on the world!
Blessings and Great Big Hugs to you and your hubby, Diane.
Our oldest is on the brink of leaving the nest. It will be quite an adjustment -- I'm trying not to think about it yet!!
Hi Dianne. Thanks for coming by my site the other day and leaving a comment. It's nice to "meet" you.
Your daughter is beautiful. My oldest is going to be in grade 12 next year and already I'm trying not to think of this time.
Been there and done that and yes it is hard. Cried all the way home. We do get them back though and the joy of a matured child who then becomes a friend. Some day when it fits in with My Story I will post the letter that I wrote my daughter as she flew the nest.Don't know how long it will take me to get to that point though. My daughter blogging at www.fromunderthemaple.blogspot.com if you are interested.
Post a Comment